#59: Adversity and the Seeds of Equal or Greater Benefit

Sometimes adversity persists until you finally make peace with it. Finding a seed of equal or greater benefit it contains can help that happen. As you find the seed and nurture it, your energy shifts, and sometimes that’s when you’ll see the adversity itself finally begin to shift as well. Discover how life is like a series of cogs and gears, and what you can do to experience traction instead of friction.

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#57: Disappointments, Marriage, and Miracles (part 2)

This is part TWO of two on the topic of disappointments, marriage, and miracles. Learn about what to do when your spouse is not on the same page with you about goals. Discover how rare faith principles can also be applied to concerns not related to money. If you have ever been hurt or disappointed and feel hesitant to dream again, listen to this episode.

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Originally recorded in Mendon, Utah on Oct 11, 2018

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New Graduate: Stephanie Lee

Desperate for $6000

I’m pleased to present Stephanie Lee as a new Mindset Mastery Honors Graduate!

In the Mindset Mastery program, students are instructed on the laws and principles that activate unseen help. That unseen help orchestrates resources, connections, and/or impressions that nudge the students toward all they need to realize their goal. In Phase 1, they practice what they’ve learned on an inconsequential goal – something NOT connected to anything they’re intensely concerned about. This helps them experience success without undue stress, to build the mental muscle memory they need to apply what they learn to a goal of greater significance in Phase 2.

Stephanie was already a student of the self-paced Mindset Mastery program since 2016, but didn’t quite complete it. So when she had the opportunity to join the Guided version of the program, she jumped on it. And now, here we are just a few months later, congratulating her on becoming an Honors graduate!

Rainbow, Please?

Here is Stephanie’s Phase 1 (inconsequential) goal report in her own words:

8:39 am. Good morning from water-logged Oregon! As part of the Guided Mindset Mastery group, it was time to choose an inconsequential goal. (If you have a chance to sign up for a future session, I HIGHLY recommend it!!)

I decided to not overthink it, and just see what popped up in my head that fit this criteria:

    1. It couldn’t be something I could buy.
    2. It couldn’t be something I had lost (there’s a reason and story behind this one that I won’t get in to here.)
    3. It couldn’t be something that required another person.

So, the first thing that popped into my head was “a rainbow”. That sounded fun, so I did a little journaling around it because I have been consistent in my overthinking/doubting/overanalyzing in the past…:

    1. My IDEAL rainbow is a real one, in the sky, weather related, SEEN IN PERSON.
    2. Bumper stickers of rainbows are allowable.
    3. Any other sort of manmade rainbow counts (I’m looking at you, Pink Floyd album cover…)
    4. Regardless of what kind of rainbow I see, it will stick out like a sore thumb and really catch my attention.
    5. I will log each sighting in a note on my phone.

I was having fun writing this list. …I was being aware of my propensity to doubt the way a thing shows up like I have in the past, because previously, I would only have one vision of how it COULD show up.

[But then I wondered…] Is my list of allowables increasing my chances of seeing a rainbow in a way that is in line with the principles, or is my list a sneaky way of putting demands on the laws that aren’t mine to put there? If I want to see a rainbow in real life, but I allow all the other versions to count, am I lacking faith?

…I decided to sit on the rainbow idea for a day or two, and if I didn’t feel more clarity around it, I was thinking I would change goals…

A few HOURS later…

UPDATE (already): I’m floored. 🌈

Today, at 1:32pm, I was out in the Applegate Valley here in flooding Southern Oregon with my husband. He had called me mid morning at work and asked if he could swing by and pick me up so that I could help him unload some logs he needed to deliver to a job. Here are some relevant fun facts:

    • He NEVER needs my help at his work. We like separate work lives. He’s a carpenter and has always been incredibly independent when it comes to his work. For him to call me after he has his work hat + momentum going this early in the day is so rare.
    • He rarely works with logs that he needs help moving.
    • We rarely go out to the Applegate. It’s not on the way to anything.
    • I didn’t remember this place in the picture existed and I certainly didn’t remember it having a rainbow fence.

So, considering my conundrum below, you can imagine how shocked and joyful I felt as we drove by it. I made my husband pull over across the street so I could get the whole fence in my picture.

🌈The laws are real and alive EVEN IN MY OVERTHINKING. Even sometimes very quickly! This is such a gift to me today and I am excited to keep playing with the laws. 

Desperate for $6000 / Guilt and Shame

Stephanie’s Phase 2 goal was a much bigger endeavor, and pretty big and scary to her. Here’s what she did with what felt like an impossible financial situation:

Initially, the goal was to generate about $6000 to pay my cousin and his wife their share of profits from a rental we invested in together. I had received some incorrect information that stated my cousin could not legally receive a penny of profit until his IRA that financed the purchase of the home was paid back, and that it was only going to get paid back upon the sale of the house. So, I had believed that I wouldn’t have to give him their share until the house sold (in a year or two from now).

The past couple of years brought the darkest times of my life and the hardest financial struggles. I used my cousin’s profits to get us through some emergencies without asking him. I believed I would be able to replenish it easily. Things got harder, and I hadn’t been able to repay him yet.

I learned late last year that the monthly profits COULD go to him. I was so scared and angry at myself. I knew I had used the money for needful things but it wasn’t my money to use. I felt HUGE guilt and shame. I set the goal of generating that money by June 18th this year when my cousin and his wife were here on our land for our family reunion.

Not only did I NOT generate a single penny of that, but I also fell behind in other areas financially. I really had to rely on the lessons in the Mindset Mastery program to help me know how to navigate all that. At one point I had a phone call with Trevan, my Mindset Mastery Program Guide, where he helped me SO much. The time had come where there seemed to be NO WAY the money could be generated in time, but I knew that the months of effort had grown ME in big and important ways. I needed help recalibrating my approach with the goal and what to do if the goal didn’t happen in time. (It involved other people, so I didn’t feel like the pregnant woman analogy quite fit.)

Trevan helped me realize that the goal so far had been incredibly fear-driven and that it would not be accomplished with fear as the force behind it. At least not in a way that honored my journey up to that point, and the growth Heavenly Father wanted for me. Trevan helped me see that the REAL goal was ACTUALLY to maintain a loving and peaceful relationship with my cousin and his wife.

That became my new goal.

I wrote a new vision statement around it. I imagined having the conversation and telling my friend afterwards, “That was the most incredible thing! The conversation was SO easy, and the solution to the money issue worked out in such a surprising and beautiful way that I hadn’t even thought of before!”

Last week, that exact thing happened with my cousin. He and his family were here for our family reunion. The opportunity to talk privately was really challenging to create, with all that was going on. As tempting as it was to hope it just wouldn’t happen, I KNEW I needed this to be resolved. I prayed for a window of time to easily open.

On the last day, when everyone was packing up to leave, it was much more calm and relaxed than usual. My cousin came in my kitchen to chat about something totally unrelated while I washed dishes. My heart was pounding because I KNEW this was the opportunity… I was praying gratitude for the upcoming conversation going well… for it being peaceful and easy, for me to have the right heart about it, for me to offer the solution/idea that came to me just a couple of days before [of offering him the monthly profits to make up for the lump I had spent].

He asked how the rental was going and I just spilled out the truth. But I felt SO at peace. I didn’t emit an energy of cowardice. I didn’t speak from a place of shame. I told him the misinformation I had received about the rental profits and I told him that I had used the money for needful things and that the most important thing to me is maintaining a loving relationship with them.

I told him of the idea of he and his wife now managing the monthly payments and keeping all the profits instead of us from here on out (the solution/idea that had come to me a few days before). I told him that when the house sold, we would give him any remaining money due to him from our profits. He loved the idea. I apologized for not having an envelope of cash to give him and he said with such kindness “Oh, it’s okay. I don’t really have a need for it so I would probably just spend it on something I don’t need to spend it on, anyway.”

It was the easiest conversation I could have imagined having about it. I could write and write and write about all the feelings I have and the lessons I’ve learned, but I will just stop here and say that the goal was accomplished and it gutted me and grew me in all the ways I needed for these principles to become a PART of me… not just knowledge I have outside of me.

Well done, Stephanie. This is a prime example of coming to realize that the REAL goal isn’t the money. We tend to think we need money to get what we really want – but when we focus instead on what we really want – what the money is for – sometimes those things can be achieved in unexpected ways.

I love how Stephanie used the Mindset Mastery principles to navigate from guilt and shame to hope, healing, and growth. And solutions! Her solution truly was only an idea away.

I am also impressed that even when there was no resolution in sight, Stephanie chose to believe. I can feel her faith when she says, “The time had come where there seemed to be NO WAY the money could be generated in time, but I knew that the months of effort had grown me in big and important ways.”

At the conclusion of the course, I was thrilled to receive the following message from Stephanie:

I’m feeling overwhelmed with gratitude at being able to graduate with honors. It represents profound growth and victory that I never could have imagined a few years ago.

Congratulations again, Stephanie! You’ve done an amazing job!

To learn more about Stephanie and her art courses, ebooks, mentoring, and lots of other goodies, visit her website: stephanieleeart.com. You’ll see that her website is a work of art in and of itself. I especially love her beautiful videos showing her process for creating art.

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What’s YOUR story going to be?

I want to see YOU graduate, too!

Learn more about the Mindset Mastery program HERE.

___________________

The Mindset Mastery Program is not to be confused with the Mindset Fundamentals Ecourse.

The Fundamentals Ecourse provides an introductory exploration into the principles that govern success for effective goal setting. It also fills the gaps to give you a basic but complete understanding of the principles, so that you have a solid foundation on which to develop true mastery. 

By contrast, the Mastery Program is focused on the *implementation* of those principles and the *achievement* of your goals. It is full of interesting assignments that take you step-by-step through two experimental goals, challenging your thought processes, helping you experience success, and setting up a pattern in your thinking that you will be able to utilize over and over for effectiveness with all of your future goals. There is a self-paced version, but we also have a GUIDED version if you want to go through the lessons on a weekly basis with an expert guide. View all your options here.

I hope you’ll join me in one of these programs, so I can help you take your understanding and success to the next level in ALL areas of your life!

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Graduation Announcement: Michelle Taylor

I’m pleased to present Michelle Taylor as a Mindset Mastery Honors Graduate!

I am so proud of the hard work and faith she exhibited to transform her spiritual and financial life. Michelle focused particularly well on the Laws of Vibration and Gestation to allow these blessings to flow more abundantly.

A Struggle with Anxiety

Michelle came into the program after a long history of anxiety, and suffering from past emotional and mental abuse. She had already been studying the principles as much as she could through our free resources, first through the Jackrabbit Factor, then Hidden Treasures, the Visual Aid that Changed Everything video, and various Podcast episodes. Once she was ready, she signed up for the Guided version of the Mindset Mastery course feeling hopeful and determined. She wrote:

I am wife to a great husband and mom to 8 wonderful kids… I have struggled with anxiety for the last 11 years. I struggle with past emotional and mental abuse that I grew up with, and it is hard to feel confident, but things are changing. I have seen a shift in my life and things are getting better. The anxiety has been due to long term focus on negativity and seeing only negativity in my life, so these principles are helping me to change to a more positive or neutral take on the situations…. I look forward to solidifying my faith and pursuing all God has for me in my life. Abundance thinking!

Putting the Laws to the Test

In Phase 1, students learn and practice the laws on something inconsequential, to build muscle memory around faith, belief, and witnessing its effects directly and intentionally. For Michelle’s phase-one goal, she chose to receive a handwritten letter in the mail expressing appreciation.

Here’s her experience in her words:

I was at the mailbox and realized how long it had been since I received a handwritten letter or note from someone. I decided that I wanted to manifest a handwritten note or letter from someone by the end of April. I noticed some things with my thoughts, how impatient I would get and every time I checked the mail, I would get a little disappointed.

While I didn’t doubt for too long, there were small thoughts every now and again. When we got to the end of lesson 12 and knew I had to try and manifest something inconsequential, I thought that I would change my goal, but I had this nagging feeling that I should stick with it. So, I changed the date, but the goal was the same.

On the 11th of May, I received a package from my mother for Mother’s Day. Mind you I am the oldest of 7 daughters and when my mother does something, especially for Mother’s Day, she would do it for everyone, so in the last 16 years since I have been a mother, this has rarely happened. I was not expecting anything from her this year. In the package I received in the mail, was a frame with a saying and a Mother’s Day book. I was so grateful to receive it and ready to read the book, as I started to gather the packaging that kept the frame from breaking, I noticed an envelope. In this envelope was a handmade card with a handwritten message of love and appreciation from my mother.

I know this was a manifestation of my goal. I have tried to discount it, because it was from my mother, or because it was Mother’s Day, but this is not the norm for my mom, or my family and more often than not, I receive nothing. This was definitely God showing me that these principles work…

I loved how Michelle noticed her thoughts about being impatient. The first step to being able to keep our thoughts right is to notice them. This sounds obvious but so many people are not aware of their own thoughts. Once she noticed her impatient thoughts, Michelle was able to use the principles to have faith that the blessings were indeed still on their way.

Financial challenges, getting off public assistance, and the miracle

During the class, Michelle had some difficult financial challenges. As most of you know, I am no stranger to financial difficulties and how terrifying they can be. I was so impressed with the way she used the laws to confront them and I want to share some pieces of her story. She wrote:

During this course, my husband quit a job to work with his dad and get him ready for retirement, since he was struggling to work outside the home. We took a much smaller paycheck in order to not overburden my father in law financially. We were off of government assistance during this time as well, as we felt led to create a vacuum in that way and trust that we would be provided for.

There was so much fear. We were hoping to also use this time to find my husband a job that wouldn’t be so hard on his back as he had had back surgery a couple of years ago. We knew he could go back to his previous job if need be, but we really didn’t want him driving trucks. We thought it would be difficult to find an office job, for the wage he was making driving trucks and delivering propane in our area. So, as we did this we trusted and tried to stay in the mindset of these principles.

We were able to cover food costs, pay all our bills, and have enough for date nights. This was incredible as we didn’t think there was any way we could do this. Of course, I should mention he was delivering pizzas in the evening a few nights a week. It got to a point where all of this extra work was weighing on him.

I set the intention that we could increase our income some way, so that he did not have to do the extra job. Within a week, my father in law stated that he found some extra money and would be able to increase his wage. This was such a relief and it was even better that it didn’t strain my father in law’s income.

A couple of weeks ago, the company my husband was driving trucks for, asked my husband if he would be the head of routing for the trucks, which is an office job, and they are paying him the same rate he made as a driver. What a miracle, because shortly after that, my father in law said that he realized he had a bill to pay worth ten thousand dollars and was relieved that my husband had found employment so soon, since he would not be able to pay my husband anymore.

We didn’t have to worry, stress, or try to control the situation. God knew what we needed, because we had set the intention and he moved everything perfectly. This course has taught me to trust, let go, and be free from fear. I am so grateful….

Michelle’s beautiful children – a big motivator for learning how to live with Rare Faith:

Probably the thing that stood out to me the most in her story is the fact that her father in law’s raise was only temporary, even though they didn’t know it at the time. But it was enough to bridge the gap until the more permanent solution could show up. Isn’t that merciful?? Things like this happen all the time, because even though the Law of Gestation says each idea seed takes a certain amount of time before it can bear fruit, other blessings can show up to hold things together until then. Our job is to believe until it shows. When we doubt, the seedling can wither.

Overcoming Anxiety

Michelle’s phase-two goal also showed a great amount of faith as she overcame old habits of doubt and anxiety to bless the lives of children:

My phase 2 goal consisted of carrying out a youth workshop for kids 12-18 by June 29th, 2019. I wanted to have at least 10 kids there and I wanted to know that the Lord was guiding and directing the process…. I had several terror barriers which God helped me overcome. First was self-confidence that I could even do a workshop to encourage when I dealt with anxiety, but while praying and moving forward, God showed me that I was the right person for this, because I have dealt with anxiety and am overcoming it.

I felt led to do vision boards and knew I would need to provide materials, but money was really tight. I didn’t think I could move forward, but trusted that God would provide for all our needs, since I felt strongly that I was attempting to do the work of God in this way, and bought the things I needed. With 8 children, one of them being a six-month-old, it was difficult to take the time to write down my plan and I wanted to create a PowerPoint to have something for the kids to look at and keep their interest.

A week before the day my husband was planning on watching kids every evening and make dinner, so that I could get everything ready. He became extremely ill for 5 days. He rarely gets sick. Instead of having his help, I ended up helping him and making sure kids needs were met. Needless to say, I wasn’t able to work on the PowerPoint or my plan for the workshop. I was ready to cancel, since at this point there were only two families going and they were going to support me anyway.

I decided I wasn’t going to judge the experience by which people came and decided that I would give my best effort even if my friends were the only ones to come. I decided to press forward, trusting that the words would be given to me when I needed them. The night before I sat down to write out a simple plan, I had the stories and words that I felt led to share and it went very quickly. I was grateful for the Lord’s help. So, I did only have two families come, but between those two families, I had 10 kids be a part of the workshop, with mine, it was 17 in all. It came out so well that one of my friends has a couple of autistic children and they loved it and wanted to know when I might do another one.

Michelle said that she struggled with the self-confidence that she could accomplish her goal. Then she said, “while praying and moving forward, God showed me I was the right person for this.”

This is the Law of Cause and Effect in action! When we pray and move forward, God is able to steer us in the right direction. After all, he can’t steer a parked car.

Michelle finished her vision board story with a hope and vision that I believe will carry her forward in many areas of her life:

I am so grateful for this experience and look forward to doing more with teaching these principles and encouraging and healing souls…. My big goal is to help heal and help people find hope. This is just the beginning.

Again, congratulations, Michelle! You’ve done an amazing job!

__________________

What’s YOUR story going to be?

I want to see YOU graduate, too!

Learn more about the Mindset Mastery program HERE.

___________________

The Mindset Mastery Program is not to be confused with the Mindset Fundamentals Ecourse.

The Fundamentals Ecourse provides an introductory exploration into the principles that govern success for effective goal setting. It also fills the gaps to give you a basic but complete understanding of the principles, so that you have a solid foundation on which to develop true mastery. 

By contrast, the Mastery Program is focused on the *implementation* of those principles and the *achievement* of your goals. It is full of interesting assignments that take you step-by-step through two experimental goals, challenging your thought processes, helping you experience success, and setting up a pattern in your thinking that you will be able to utilize over and over for effectiveness with all of your future goals. There is a self-paced version, but we also have a GUIDED version if you want to go through the lessons on a weekly basis with an expert guide. View all your options here.

I hope you’ll join me in one of these programs, so I can help you take your understanding and success to the next level in ALL areas of your life!

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Nancy Blackburn: Graduation Announcement

I’m pleased to present Nancy Newren Blackburn as a new Mindset Mastery Honors Graduate! 

Nancy began this journey back in 2010. I’ve been watching her learn and grow for NINE years, and it’s been SO fun to watch her evolution. (The information is powerful, so stick with it! It will pay off!)

Back in 2010, she started out by joining me in the Profitable Author program. From there, she won a ticket in 2011 to Genius Bootcamp, and then returned to Genius Bootcamp again as an alumni in 2013. After her second Bootcamp, she said this:

The first time I attended [2011] I didn’t even know what I wanted to do with my life. The people I met were amazing and very loving: Both the teachers and the attendees. One fabulous older woman upon hearing my plight and struggles with work and feeling that I had no purpose, gave me a book to support me in my journey. They all supported me, and made me feel like I had purpose and that I could discover it, despite how I felt. …So while I didn’t discover my life’s purpose during the weekend, Genius Bootcamp gave me the tools so that during that summer I stumbled upon it. It meant going back to grad school, completely switching fields, and lots of hard work.

That’s why I attended a second time [2013] while I was in the process of applying to grad school and committing myself to this huge step. Genius Bootcamp again to the rescue!

…[During] that bootcamp God told me I could overcome a BIG obstacle …and one of the older gentlemen turned around and said to me with such conviction I knew he knew it, “You can do it Nancy. Don’t you believe otherwise.”

I’d completely given up on going on a mission (I just turned 31 and I had tried to go a couple times since turning 21, but couldn’t for financial reasons), and now I’m going! …I’ve received my mission call to Missouri Independence Mission, English speaking!!

…When I get back… I’ll get a job making video games, get married, and have LOTS OF BABIES!!

There are many miracles and good that I received… from attending Genius Bootcamp, not the least including how it helped me discover my life’s career, it helped me get into the number ONE grad school program for Video Game development in America, become a GamePlay Engineer, AND helped me overcome an addiction.

I have purpose in my life, I’m super cool (making video games gives instant coolness), I make people happy with what I do, I stand as a witness that recovery exists, and I am helping others overcome their addictions and self-doubts on their journey to pursue their dreams!

If you put your heart and soul into it, if you are willing to work, and are open to miracles, then Genius Bootcamp will help you create and receive what you need to fulfill your life’s purpose.

And if that’s not enough to convince you to go to Genius Bootcamp then I’m not sure what will.

But for me at least, It was so-o worth it!

Thanks Leslie for all your encouragement and teachings over the years. Bob Proctor said it takes 5-10 years to really change your life …it wasn’t easy, but it was worth it.

One thing that inspires me about Nancy is how she handles every obstacle that comes her way:

After facing some medical challenges and coming home from her mission on medical release, she signed up for her THIRD Genius Bootcamp [in 2015] to get herself on track to her next goals.

She’s given me permission to share all of these ups and downs with you, in hopes it might help someone else feel encouraged. After her third Bootcamp, she said this:

After my recovery I worked with Mindy Lundgreen, LCSW as a mentor in her Daughters of Light program: a supportive sisterhood in which therapeutic interventions and gospel principles are applied to help women and young women overcome personal adversity, including addictions, by reconnecting with their own personal power, light, and divinity. I [later] transitioned into a personal and family wellness mentor, but I carry the lessons I learned as a mentor in that group to help support my family, friends, and clients.

I rarely think of myself as a recovered addict anymore. I’m just me, trying to be better. I think that it’s important for people to realize that they don’t have to identify as a recovered addict after they’ve recovered. I know several recovered addicts that continue to think of themselves that way, but when Christ forgives us he doesn’t think of us as “formerly” anything. He thinks of us as MADE NEW! For Christ makes all things NEW!

After recovery it is good to continue the support you need, but you don’t have to think of yourself as recovered forever. Just be your best self trying to be better. That’s why I stepped away, for now, from mentoring addicts, I didn’t want to think of myself as “formerly” addicted. I wanted to think of myself, and others, as powerful, strong, light, and divine, the way God thinks of all His children: with love!

It has been a long journey. Ha ha. 🙂 But it’s been worth the journey. I would still be stuck in my little “hell” hole without the principles… thank you!

In June of 2018 she returned to her FOURTH Genius Bootcamp…

…and by September she was engaged at age 34!!

Ready to achieve even more, she decided to start the process of qualifying to become a Genius Bootcamp Facilitator. One of those steps is to complete the Mindset Mastery Program with Honors.

After getting married in March of 2019, she officially achieved Honors status as a Graduate of the Mindset Mastery Program. I’ve come to expect no less than excellence from this exemplary, diligent student of the principles!

 

NANCY, you’re on FIRE!!

While Genius Bootcamp is an excellent resource for helping you overcome fear, get out of ruts, and for tapping into those genius ideas that help you find and succeed with your passion, Mindset Mastery helps you use Rare Faith on a daily basis to accomplish things beyond your natural control. Together, both programs help you stay fearlessly in forward motion, just as Nancy has demonstrated.

The Mindset Mastery part of her success story all started with just a small and simple goal.

It’s what we do in there—helping you select experiments on which to test the principles, so that you build mental muscle memory to accomplish every goal you desire throughout your life.

Small and simple is a fun and rewarding way to practice living the laws without too much risk.

Even though Nancy already had a LOT of experience with goal achievement from what she learned and applied from her repeated attendance at Genius Bootcamp, Mindset Mastery required a different thought process.

And it’s worthy to note that she didn’t embark in the program with an “I already know all this” mindset—she approached it with eager and humble teachability, and doing so really made a big difference.

Here is Nancy’s first Mindset Mastery experiment, in her own words:

Phase one inconsequential goal: The Lost Favorite Shirt

My Phase one goal was to find a favorite shirt! I had previously looked for this shirt multiple times, so when midterm came around, I thought this was the perfect thing to try out the principles on. When doubt crept in, I thought about it and realized that those first several attempts I hadn’t really applied the principles, so I allowed myself to push those doubts aside and try again. I closed my eyes, calmed myself, and imagined how awesome it would feel to finally find my favorite shirt (after months of it being lost!), and how happy I was to finally have it back, how it felt to wear it again, how grateful I was to God for it. I pictured myself praying to God and thanking Him for helping me to find my favorite long-lost shirt.

I believed I had lost my shirt after laundry day. Supposing that that was the case, I returned again to the laundry room (months later!) and checked all the places I could think of: in, behind, under, etc. It wasn’t there, I wasn’t surprised, but then I remembered that this shirt was a lay-flat-to-dry kind of shirt. There was one main place I always dried these shirts: on the top of our large deep freezer in the basement. I went there and the thought occurred to me that perhaps I had left it there and then someone had opened the deep freezer and my shirt had slipped behind! This had never occurred to me before. I hopped on top of the deep freezer and took a peek behind. There it was, along with my first aid/first responder bag that had been lost FOR YEARS!! I gratefully retrieved the two items. I was grateful to have my shirt back, but I felt ever so much more grateful than I had even imagined when I also found my first responder kit after years of thinking it was gone for good! I almost felt overwhelmed with gratitude. Of course the laws work, they are laws, but I also learned that day that God is incredibly generous. For that I am deeply thankful.

God knew where my shirt and kit were, and He simply waited for me to apply correct principles to show me that He knew where they were, that He was aware I’d be wanting them and willing to search for them. He was aware of me. I’m very grateful for his grace in all the small and simple ways He blesses us with it. My prayer after finding these two things was full of deep gratitude to my Heavenly Father and I felt his love for me.

SO cool, Nancy.

I loved how she calmed herself when doubt crept in. Calming ourselves allows our minds to stay in a good vibration. In this state we’re able to receive the answers we need, which is exactly what happened for her.

With her newfound confidence in herself and the laws, Nancy leapt into phase two with a very ambitious goal. In fact, Nancy was so terrified of this goal, she asked if she could change it. But when you use the laws, terrifying goals become manageable. Aspirations that seemed impossible come within reach. Here Nancy tells how she went from anxiety to achievement:

Phase-two bite-sized goal: From anxiety to achievement

My bite-sized goal was to find clarity around my personal business and get a great domain name. I was so terrified of my goal that I asked Leslie if I could change it!

A few days later I was thinking/panicking/applying the laws of thought to think truth as I brain stormed ways my husband and I could buy a new home (which was the new goal I wanted to focus on). As I struggled to think truth, I began to pray. In that same prayer I asked God what I should be focusing on with my work/business…and the answer came back to focus on my game development. I felt this sense of calm come to me. It’s a dream I’ve been dreaming for a while, I’ve worked in industry, got my Master’s in games, and it’s ultimately what I want to do! I realized after the prayer that I already have a great domain name (NancyGames.com) and I know what I want to do next with my business. I’d set this aside for so long because I was too afraid and didn’t even know it!

After the prayer I felt a warm comforting feeling telling me the inspiration I’d received and the decision I’d made was right. I had focus. I had clarity. It was several days later that I realized that the prayer was the achievement of my goal! #TooScaredToEvenKnowWhenThingsAreRightInFrontOfYou!

I love how Nancy said, “as I struggled to think truth, I began to pray.” This is a great example of the Law of Cause and Effect. When you take a step toward your goal—like saying a prayer or trying to think right—it takes a step toward you. Notice that Nancy’s thinking did not have to be perfect. She just had to take that one small step in the right direction. Then it took a huge step toward her.

What an honor it has been to be with Nancy as she begins her amazing journey of accomplishing all of her dreams and goals. She’s done an extraordinary job.

At the conclusion of the program, she left me with this beautiful message:

I’m super excited, and SUPAH SCARED, to pursue this [game development] dream. Thanks to the principles and the steps that Leslie has outlined for us in Mindset Mastery I know how to achieve every goal I put my mind to! And I’m so grateful she pushed me to go after such a scary dream! I wonder if I’d still be wondering what I should focus on! #clarity #grace

Again, congratulations, Nancy! You’ve done an amazing job!

To learn more about Nancy and what she’s up to, visit her websites:

  1. LiveLifeBlooming.com is where she helps women increase their personal and family wellness to live their best life by having the best of themselves to give to others and themselves, so they can bloom the way God intended.
  2. NancyGames.com is where fun never dies!  As a creator of clean, uplifting, and inspiring games, all are welcome explore her website where she posts about games she’s creating, game ideas, and insights on developing video games. Particularly in the future she will be posting about her upcoming Ph.D. research in educational games and upcoming games she’ll be publishing in app stores.

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Learn more about the Mindset Mastery program HERE.

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The Mindset Mastery Program is not to be confused with the Mindset Fundamentals Ecourse.

The Fundamentals Ecourse provides an introductory exploration into the principles that govern success for effective goal setting. It also fills the gaps to give you a basic but complete understanding of the principles, so that you have a solid foundation on which to develop true mastery. 

By contrast, the Mastery Program is focused on the *implementation* of those principles and the *achievement* of your goals. It is full of interesting assignments that take you step-by-step through two experimental goals, challenging your thought processes, helping you experience success, and setting up a pattern in your thinking that you will be able to utilize over and over for effectiveness with all of your future goals. There is a self-paced version, but we also have a GUIDED version if you want to go through the lessons on a weekly basis with an expert guide. View options here.

I hope you’ll join me in one of these programs, so I can help you take your understanding and success to the next level in ALL areas of your life!

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